Monday, 26 September 2016

Yes, I am in India! :(

<<Originally penned in Sep 2013>>

The incident which I am gonna share now happened some time back. But I remember it every now and then. Today I couldn’t control myself but to put them into words and share it with a few people whom I know.
Dec 16 2012, the day I had my ticket from NY to Hyderabad (via New Delhi), back to India, back to My Mother Land. As planned everything went on well and boarded my flight with mixed feelings. I had spent almost a year in US and now I was leaving with lots of memories in my bag. The flight journey was as expected and finally I landed in New Delhi the next day. I had heard from many of my friends, how it feels when we land in India after spending a considerable time abroad. One of my friends had actually said that she just wanted to kiss the mother land as soon as she landed. I too was excited. I got down from the flight and was walking towards the domestic gates to board my connecting flight.

I had not been at the Indira Gandhi International airport before, so was looking intently around since I may not be here so soon. It was no less than any international airport and was impressed. After the security checkup, which took a while, I saw a telephone booth. I rushed to it and called my Dad to inform that I have landed in New Delhi and my next flight is on schedule. I had to now go towards the domestic section. On the way there were many outlets of Indian and international brands. I glanced through each one and was walking leisurely. Suddenly I felt something unnatural. But didn’t understand why? Ignoring, I moved a little ahead and saw an outlet for chocolates. I had 2 big packs of chocolates already in my luggage, but still couldn’t resist and scanned through the varieties. There was this pack of Lindt chocolates which I didn’t taste at all. So went to the counter and purchased them, really happy with the new addition. Again I felt the same uneasiness as before - A man dressed in a uniform with the GMR emblem was staring at me! I wondered am I not dressed normally. I moved little ahead and saw another man who was handling a vacuum cleaner to do the cleaning of the carpet trying for glances at me….. At last I realized…. “Yes! I am in INDIA”.  

The bitter truth sunk through me. I never expected that the realization will dawn on me in this way. Being born and spending all my life but 1 yr in India, as a female, this is something which we get used to it subconsciously. Just sighing in my inside mind, neglected the stares and went and sat near the gate through which I was going to board the next flight. I gave a glance at my fellow passengers and then on the TV. One of the news channels was reporting something on cricket but scrolling news said, “A 23 yr old female was gang raped in a moving bus in New Delhi last night….”

That news was just any ordinary one until a week later when protests had started in different parts of the country. That incident shook the whole country, but failed to make any impact on the laws pertaining to the brutal crime. Even today, when we glance through the newspapers, we read similar incidents, happening more than one in a day, across the country. Irrespective of the age of a female, the crime is performed and the criminal gets out very easily. Each day, I have this question to myself, to which I have no answer – “Will girls / women ever feel secured and walk without hesitation in our own country?”

Saturday, 24 September 2016

Teacher in Making

After an adventurous and tiresome trip everyone was exhausted. They just wanted to hit the bed and have a whole night’s sleep. The plan for next day too was a hectic one and had to start early. It was around 11 pm and everyone had completed their dinner. It was time to say good night. But nah! Pansy, was feeling playful. She asked excitedly, “Are we not going for the drive we planned?”

“Let’s go” prompted Troy, the one who considers any time spent indoors as a waste of time. There was an uncertain look on the faces of Jane, Tia and Pansy herself. The three girls glanced at each other. Pansy had not anticipated this. She was sure Jane would object to it. It’s late in the night, not advisable to be outdoors. But, surprisingly, there was a big “YES” in unison from all of them. Within no time everyone was in the car with Troy in the driving seat.
Zoooooom, the car started and was on the driveway, “Right or left?” Troy popped the question. Before anyone could answer, the car headed straight and then immediate left to an empty parking lot. The car came to an abrupt halt! The girls were perplexed. It was supposed to be a drive, probably a long drive but not as short as this one! Troy winked at Jane and asked to come forward. There was an exchange of seats and Jane was in the driving seat with Troy by her side. Jane wanted to practice driving but had not been able to allocate some time due to her very hectic schedules. All of them were less than a couple of years into the new country and Troy was the only one amongst the four who had been able to clear the road test and get a driving license where as all the others had only learner’s permit.

Troy briefed everyone about the control on steering, accelerator and the brakes. Questions were poured about adjustment of seat to accelerator control, gear shift etc. Being a passionate driver himself, Troy answered all of them patiently. “Place the gear in drive mode and hit the accelerator” commanded Troy. Jane was a little hesitant, but followed the orders to the core. Slowly and steadily the vehicle moved ahead and was turning at the corners. With little help from Troy, Jane was able to drive around the parking lot pretty well. For almost more than half an hour Jane followed each and every command of Troy and the car seemed to follow Troy’s instructions rather than Jane’s driving. “Hit the brake and stop the car” ordered Troy. There was an astonished look, “Why?” demanded Jane. “You have been doing a good job! Let us give others a chance too” replied Troy. With a big smile on the face, Jane parked the car and stepped out to swap with Pansy.

Pansy was not much interested in driving. She had least expected to qualify for the written test. She believed it was sheer luck she got the learner’s permit. As soon as she sat on the driver’s seat, “Adjust your seat, put on your seat belt”, roared Troy. A tensed and agitated Pansy got more tensed. She didn’t utter a word but followed as instructed. With so many instructions from Troy to increase the speed, turn left, slow down, apply brakes, drive ahead, control the steering, car going out of control, slow down, slow down, slow down, Pansy was trying her best to keep following the instructions but she was losing control on the car. While taking a turn, she was about to hit the divider, that Troy had to lean forward to steer the other way around. Pansy was losing her concentration which was easily visible to everyone in the car.  Troy was doing a good job by controlling the steering whenever required. But the vehicle was swaying in both the directions. For anyone watching the vehicle will get suspicious and in no time had the cops siren heard nearby. Pansy froze and hit the brake suddenly. She just wanted to get out of the car. But before she could think, before she could react, the cops vehicle had come to a halt hardly 50 feet from them.

“Be cool and calm everyone, don’t panic” whispered Troy. “Do not say anything more than what is asked” he continued. The cop came and spoke in a cool and composed voice, “Hello there”. “Hi, Officer” replied Pansy. “May I ask what is happening here?” enquired the person in the uniform. “Ya, officer. I am practicing for my road test.” “Oh that is good, but why did you choose this late in night?” shot the officer. “Since only during this time, the roads and the parking areas will be vacant, we chose this time.” Replied Pansy confidently. All through this conversation, Troy was just listening. Jane and Tia were sitting quiet in the back seats. Suddenly the officer glanced through the back, and asked “Who are you?”. “We are friends”. “You are so confident on her driving that you volunteered to sit while she practiced?” “Yes” Tia replied  promptly. The officer walked around the car, “be careful and try to avoid late night practice” suggested the officer and drove away.

A big sigh of relief came across the faces of all 4 of them. It took more than a couple of minutes for them to speak. Jane was the first one to break the silence – “Do you want me to call the cops again so that you resume your speaking?” A loud laugh reverberated. “Pansy was scared to hell”, Troy exclaimed. “But she replied well. Officer didn’t have any more questions” said Jane. “Troy was more scared than her” laughed Tia. “You became dumb when officer was here”, retorted Troy. All through this conversation, Pansy still seemed lost. Troy and Tia were busy arguing with each other. But Jane noticed Pansy. She felt something was wrong. She tried calling and even shaking Pansy. “Pansy, Pansy!!!!” Pansy came to senses and looked at everyone. Without a second thought she jumped out of the car. Troy was confused. Pansy admitted she was afraid and didn’t want to continue. Troy was not ready to let her go. He tried to convince to give another attempt. But she was adamant.

She was feeling a lot exhausted. He advised to give another try and enjoy driving. But Pansy requested Tia to step out.

“Sit erect and try to see the front of the car” advised Troy. “Why do we need to sit erect? I can see the front of the car, I don’t think it is necessary for me to sit erect”, replied Tia. Troy had been enjoying instructing Jane and Pansy. It didn’t seem difficult teaching them since they were following each and every instruction without many questions. Now it was Tia’s turn. Troy understood he is going to have a difficult time and will not be a cake walk with Tia. 

Soothing down his voice, he tried to explain the importance of control on steering and other basics in driving. “Drive slowly and steadily”, “Turn right”, “Slow down”, “Watch out for the pole”, shooted the instructions one after the other. Although not fully acceptable by Tia, she was following each one of them. “Hit the brake, hit the brake!” roared Troy. But Tia didn’t slow down. “Why?” was her question. “Hit the brake!” ordered Troy again. Boom, Tia stamped on the brake, and looked at Troy ferociously. Both Pansy and Jane sitting in the rear seats swayed downwards. “Why do you want me to stop the car? Am I not driving properly? Why don’t you allow me to drive? If I am making any mistake, correct me. Why do you want me to stop the car?” retaliated Tia. “Why can’t you just do what I am saying you to do? Why do you have so many questions?” spat back Troy. “Entha dhairyam ra neeku (“How dare you talk like that to me?”) echoed a Telugu movie dialogue from behind. Pansy and Jane looked at each other. Voice was coming from Jane’s mobile. “Uthuthine akka” (“I was just joking”, another movie dialogue) a male voice was pleading. Many a time, the music play list starts automatically in Jane’s mobile and the stored audio files start playing one by one. Recognizing the source of the voice, loud laughter reverberated from the back of the car. But the temperatures were still high in the front. Sensing danger Jane chipped in and tried to calm Tia down. “Just drive as instructed. Since you have never been on road, he wants you to get a grip on the vehicle, so that it is easier for you in the later stages of your practice.” “Why can’t he just watch and correct me when I go wrong? argued Tia again.  Jane understood there was no point arguing with her at this point; it is just going to worsen the situation. Before she could think thru and explain anything to Tia, Troy said in a very calm voice, “Drive through the parking lot to your hearts fill. Don’t be surprised. I mean it. Drive to your heart’s fill.” Tia stared at Troy with astonishment. “You are very much excited about the thought of driving a vehicle, that you are not ready to listen to me or anyone else. Until your excitement levels are high, you will not be able to listen to my instructions or learn to drive. So, just drive” explained Troy. Tia tried to argue back but thought otherwise and started driving carefully. In no time, she understood Troy was right, and she had to be calm and composed and follow the instructions. She drove carefully for the next two rounds as instructed and realized that a lot of patience and practice is required to learn a new skill.
Since it was already past midnight, Jane suggested that it was time to go home and relax. Troy drove them back. Everyone exchanged good night and went to bed.

Lying on the bed, Pansy was thinking how stupid she had been not listening to anyone and not giving another try. Had she been not scared, even she would have driven a while and enjoyed it. In the adjacent room, Tia was feeling furious. “Had Troy not played the part of being the “know it all”, I could have shown how well I can drive. If not this time, next time I will definitely show my driving skills”. With a determined smile, she fell asleep. Jane felt contented about her driving practice. But all the more her interest to learn and practice grew tenfold. What an awesome feeling it is to drive a car. And Troy had been a very good teacher that day.

Meanwhile Troy was not at all sleepy. Rerunning all the events of the driving session in his mind, he was feeling satisfied. He had given similar sessions earlier, but this was different. This was fun. All of them drove well. They need a little bit more of practice. It was easy instructing Jane and Pansy. They were with an open mind. Open to take in whatever is being told to them, With Tia, a different strategy needs to be followed. She is excited, her learning way is different. Dealing with such type of people requires more patience. But they are the ones who excel in whatever task they take up. His mind wandered to different strategies to be employed and slowly drifted to sound sleep. 

<<Inspired from some real life incidents>>

Me as Blogger :-O

Its been really a long time that I have been asked by few of my friends to start writing - to start my own space in the writing world - to start My Blog and share my views and thoughts. I never really knew what needs to be written which will give my readers a good read. But once a while some things keep on popping in my head or disturbs a lot that I need to put my thoughts on the paper, oops I mean type them on the screen :). So, not wasting any more time, here I am officially inaugurating my blog. 

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